From time to time though, I will catch her day dreaming, playing with the pencil eraser, or singing, when she is supposed to be doing schoolwork. So how do we get the easily distracted child to focus?
Here are a few tips:
* Keep the lessons short. Start with 5 minutes and then gradually move up to 10 or 15 minutes. Set a timer so they can see how much time is left.
* Try to eliminate other noise. You can't send all your other children to another room, but you can make sure all electronic devices are off and loud toys are removed.
* Lead by example. Show them what you expect of them. Is it possible they don't understand what you want? Explain to them what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior. Do you have another child who is a good listener? Have that child set the example.
* Take a break. Maybe they just need to run off some energy. Let them go outside to play and run around for a while and then after they cool down, start again.
* Change the location. Have they been completing their schoolwork in the same spot since the beginning of the year? Change it up a bit and move to another room or another table.
* Give praise...and lots of it! Sometimes we can be too quick to correct and reprimand, but not quick enough to give praise. When you see them doing a good job, let them know it!
* Pray. Is it possible that they are doing all they can do and it is you that needs some help? Bring your concerns to the Lord and pray for patience and wisdom in these trying situations.
I hope these tips have been helpful! Good luck!
